It‘s hard to say happy or not to be a single

　　If you are single, are you afraid of the lonely long night?

　　If you are single, are you afraid of your future?

　　If you are single, do you care about other people’s happiness?

　　If you are single, are you happy?

    Many unmarried people would like to say “I am happy”， considering the single will be free, easy, carefree, and there is no need to worry about the family. The whole family will not be hungry when one is stuffed. You don’t have to care about other people, you can do what ever in your own way, and nothing matters too much。

　　However, many guys will say they are unhappy, like a lonely puppet with infinite boredom and emptiness. When you go travelling far way, you watch the beautiful sunset varnishing the sky, you have breakfast alone, fall asleep alone and watch the TV dramas alone without knowing what it is about。

    Everything has its double sides. It‘s hard to say happy or not to be a single. It all depends on what situation you are in。

　　Well, when you want to do something for yourself, you don‘t have to think about your family if you are a single. That‘s very joyful. And you just feel free to do whatever you want, there might have no restrictions in your single life. That is happy。

　　But, have you ever thought about when you are in trouble, who is going to help you? When you are sick, who is going to look after you?

　　You might say ” I have got frends!” Yes, your friends maybe can help but have you ever thought about their own life?

　　And, life is not only for obtaining but also giving. How do you feel if you could help your beloved, if you could make them happy? That would be very cheerful to see our beloved smiling。

　　So, it‘s hard to say happy or not to be a single。

翻譯：

真的很難說，單身到底是否快樂

　　如果是單身，你會(huì)害怕長夜的寂寞嗎？

　　如果是單身，你會(huì)擔(dān)心將來的結(jié)果嗎？

　　如果是單身，你會(huì)在乎身邊人的幸福嗎？

　　如果是單身，你會(huì)覺得快樂嗎？

    很多沒結(jié)婚的人可能會(huì)說：我高興，認(rèn)為單身才自由，輕松，無憂無慮，還有就是不用擔(dān)心家庭。一人吃飽，全家不餓。你不用照顧其他人（的感受），你可能想做什么就做什么，什么都沒關(guān)系

　　但也有些單身的人們會(huì)說自己不快樂， 認(rèn)為自己就像是孤單的木偶， 伴著寂寞，心中是無比的失落與空蕩. 獨(dú)自去遠(yuǎn)方徘徊暢游，一個(gè)人坐看晚霞映紅西山，一個(gè)人吃著早餐，一個(gè)人獨(dú)自睡去，一個(gè)人看著電視劇說著不知所云的話。

　　每一件事都有它的兩面性。很難說單身到底快樂與否。這得取決于你處于什么樣的情景。

　　好，當(dāng)你想要只為自己做一些事情的時(shí)候，如果你是單身，你不需要考慮你的家人。那是非常愉快的。你只是自由的做你想做的事，在單身生活中，這里也許不會(huì)有約束。那是一種快樂。

　　但是，你有沒有想過，當(dāng)你處于困境中，有誰可以幫你？或是當(dāng)你生病了，誰會(huì)來照顧你？

　　你也許會(huì)說“我有很多朋友。”是的，你的朋友也許可以幫助你，可你有沒有想過你朋友自己的生活呢？

　　還有，生活不只是獲取，同樣也是付出。如果你能幫助你所愛的人，如果你能讓你所愛的人快樂，你會(huì)是一種什么樣的感覺？看到我們心愛的人微笑應(yīng)該是非常愉快的。

　　所以，真的很難說，單身到底是否快樂。